She is dating someone else
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Unfortunately, it rarely, if ever, turns out that way.Maybe you describe this new relationship similar to the way others I’ve worked with: Most likely your desire is not to hurt the person you’re married to, but rather to live in this new level of love that you never knew existed.You don’t mean to harm family, friends, coworkers, church buddies, or anyone else. Short-term consequences and long-term consequences. If you choose short-term, you may decide to end your marriage for your lover.If you wish to learn how to overcome the deep emotion you currently feel for your lover and find the way to have a fulfilling marriage with your mate, we can help.Our success rate over the last decade is more than 75% for those who attend our workshop in Nashville, TN.They would admit that there is never a “happily ever after” and that leaving one relationship for another is trading one set of problems for another.
In short, they would have stayed in the first marriage and done all they could to make it work.
Highly revered marriage researcher John Gottman writes in his book …many clinicians…have been quick to point out that ‘affairs involve sex, but sex is usually not the purpose of the affair’…In fact, most clinicians who have written in this area report that affairs are usually about seeking friendship, support, understanding, and validation…they are about getting the acceptance that is missing in the marriage.” My work with thousands of married couples in crisis indicates that this is exactly the case.
Relationship affairs – as opposed to the one-night-stand type of affairs that are wholly about sex and not at all about relationship – usually find root in a person’s feeling unloved, unaccepted, disliked, or disrespected.
That doesn’t mean that the person necessarily went looking for affirmation and validation from someone else.
However, when it came, it captured his/her heart and they fell in love with someone else.
In the ecstasy of new love people overlook flaws, quirks, and problems in the other or in the relationship.